Register for something your marriage will actually use.
The Starting Out Collection is a gift for couples beginning a shared life — two exercises, one shared picture of how you communicate and what you each expect. Add it to your Zola, Joy, MyRegistry, or The Knot registry in under a minute.
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Wedding gift
The Starting Out Collection
The full Attune assessment plus a practical checklist for name changes, finances, and household logistics. For couples building a shared life together.
Digital · $139Physical gift box · $174
Most registry items fill a cabinet. This one fills a gap you didn't know you had. The guests closest to you — the ones who've watched you become a couple — are often the ones who wish they could give you something that actually helps you become a family. This is that gift.
Add it to your registry
Zola, Joy, MyRegistry, and The Knot all support adding gifts from any online store. Tap your platform below — we'll help you set it up.
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Zola
Use the "Add a gift from another store" button.
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Joy
Add via the "Quick Add Button" or paste the URL.
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MyRegistry
Use the MyRegistry browser button on this page.
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The Knot
Add via "Other Registry" using the link below.
The link to paste
Copy this and paste it into your registry platform:
They find Attune on your registry alongside your other gift options. The Starting Out Collection shows up with a clear description and price.
They click through to Attune and land on a page tailored for registry purchases — no guessing about what they're buying.
They complete the purchase on Attune with a gift message for you. Payment is handled securely through Stripe.
You get notified by email with their name and note. Your access to the full experience is waiting when you're ready to begin — together.
One small note about registries
Most registry platforms mark items as "purchased" automatically when the purchase happens on their site. For items added from external stores — including Attune — you'll need to mark it as purchased yourself after the guest buys it. We'll email you the moment a gift is made, so it takes 10 seconds.
Questions couples ask
Is this a real gift, or just an online thing?
Both. You can register for the digital version ($139) — instant access the moment your guest buys it — or the physical gift box ($174), which includes everything in the digital plus a printed workbook and notepad shipped in a keepsake box. Some couples like having the box to open together after the wedding.
What do we actually receive?
Two exercises you each complete privately (about 25 minutes total), a shared results page that shows both of you how you each communicate and what you each expect, and a practical checklist for the first few months of married life — name changes, finances, household logistics. The physical version adds a printed 20-30 page workbook generated from your specific results.
When should we do it?
Whenever feels right. Some couples use it in the weeks before the wedding to surface expectations they haven't talked about. Others wait until a quiet moment after the honeymoon. You have access for as long as your account exists — there's no expiration.
Is this a therapy thing?
No. Attune is a self-guided assessment — not therapy, not counseling. It surfaces how you each see things and gives you language to talk about them. Think of it as a structured conversation starter, not a clinical tool.
What if we already own a lot of this — can we exchange it?
Gift cards are valid indefinitely and transferable, so you can pass along an unwanted Attune gift to another couple getting married. Or redeem it for the anniversary package later if the newlywed version doesn't fit.
We're not sure our guests will "get it."
The couples who've gifted it tell us the same thing: the friends and family closest to you already know you're the kind of people who'd want this. Registry guests who want to give something meaningful (and not another wine decanter) tend to pick Attune first.